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Q: im 14/f right now (almost 15) im in 9th grade. ever since i was about 10/11ish i've been liking alot of guys. in the beginning of last year (when i was 13) i fell really hard for this guy and we were pretty good friends too. i'm trying so hard not to like him (because well i asked him if he liked me and he said he didn't but all of his friends said he liked me but i dont know) anyways, i've never liked anyone else since i fell for him. and i'm even trying to like someone else to forget him but it isnt working. is this normal? what should i do? please any advice on this topic will be very appreciated :]
Sounds like someone has a first love. Trust me...first loves are so hard to forget. the saying is true. I have one (i recently turned 15) and no matter what i do i always think about him. You can't like someone else to try to make him fade because it doesn't work. You just need to slowly get over it. You don't need to have a mantra like "I'll stop loving him" or "I am over him"...you will slowly like other people. It might take a while..for me it took 4 years and it differs with different people. Don't worry...just chill and have fun you'll get over him!

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