heyy my name is megan.
im 16.
i have a boyfriend i love to death.
i absoulutly love giving advice.
i think i can safely say i am great at it.
if its about love friendships sex i can answer those very well because i have been through all of that kind of shit.
ask for advice anytime!
i promise i will try my bestest.
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Okay, well I have a boyfriend who i've been with for over 9 months.. and i love him with everything that i have. he doesn't have the best life, and he's such a happy goofy kid. i love him mentality because he's always so carefree, even though alot of things in his life suck. for example- no father, very sick [in the hospital for years] mother, loser brother, and lives with his uncle. yet he's such a cheerful and funny kid. but, i tend to get annoyed very easily, and whenever he does something dumb, i make him feel stupid about it by saying something mean or sarcastic. and i've finally recognized that i do it, i just don't know how to control it. there have been several occassions that he almost broke up with me because i treat him so crappily. and i can't stand it. but he loves me so much, so he can never bring himself to officially leave me. and i love him too. he's the sweetest boy in the world, and my first everthing [i'm still a virgin though] and i really am the luckiest girl in the whole entire universe to have him.. but i just wish i could be nicer to him! now, i too have an advice column.. and if someone asked me this question, i'd just say- 'well if you want to be nicer, just simply be nicer' but it's really not that easy. i try so hard but i'm just a spoiled bitch. and i dont get it because i do realize what i have- the most amazing boy anyone could ever have, but i just don't act like it. and i don't want to lose him because of my attitude.. can someone please help me??? =( ♥ (link)
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Hun, I know how you feel. Im in a very similar situation. I understand how hard it is to change such a terriable habit. Just think before you speak it can be hard if you have that habit but you will learn. It's all part of growing up, you're probably still trying to figure out who you are and what you wanna do with your life. It's hard with a boyfriend around as well, you might get mad or stressed out and him being all happy and goofy will annoy you. Just when you're in moods like that stay away from him or when you're together/talking on the phone tell him your in a bad mood and he will hopefully understand. But then again maybe it's not your mood you could just be absoulutly annoyed by him at times. That's alright as well, just think before you speak/act and you should be fine.
Hope I Helped
Good Luck Hun
:)
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