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ok well im 14/f. and i have had a huge crush on my best friend for a while now. but he told me he didnt like me when he found out i liked him. it was really depressing and all but then i got over him and started liking him again. he never found out that i started liking him again. he still thinks im over him. but last wednessday i found out why he didnt like me. its because he was "confused" about his orientation. but he said he is not anymore and that he is strait. he also told me he loves me. he always tells me he loves me but the way he said it was different. he said "did i ever tell you i love you? alot. i mean really alot." it was the nicest thing ever and well im not sure if he likes me. because before it seemed like he did but it turned out he only wanted to be friends. he led me on in a way but its not his fault. now that he is strait i think he could like me. and he doesnt know i like him though. i want to kiss him so badly but i think that would be a bit sudden. should i tell him how i feel? or should i just go for it? oh and by the way my friend also likes him. and he knows it. i appreciate the help.
Jennifer&hearts
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Dear Jennifer&hearts,
The guy obviously cares if he is telling you that he loves you etc.
the best thing to do is to flirt.but keep it subtle.
the last thing you want is for this to go too far as friends because it seems like you both want more.
try spending more time with him and flirt a bit.
try touching his hand when he is speaking and look into his eyes and let him know you are interested.
Be yourself! trust me, it helps!
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thanx. you give awesome advise. awesome enough to be one of my favorite columnists! =) thanx again.
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