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Xenolan
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Get ready for this one, it might be a bit long.
Okay well my boyfriend and I had plans for today to get together so he could meet my cousin. Instead he gets drunk, calls me telling me that he can't come over but he wants me at his friends house to hang out at a party with him, then proceeds to tell me that I cannot bring my cousin who I never see. When I tell him no I can't just leave my cousin here he goes on saying oh well there are plenty of hott girls here who want to take their clothes off. Then I just tell him I was hanging up and he didn't even say just kidding or try to stop me he simply says k bye. That really got to me and I messaged him on myspace saying how he treated me was really wrong. He just replied back by saying soooo many b**ches so little time then he says where is the ky (as in the lubricant) G** Da** it.
So what I want to know is how do I let him know what he is doing to me is making me have suicidal thoughts. He really is a great boyfriend when he isn't drunk so I don't plan on breaking up with him. But how do I just let him know what he does hurts me. (link)
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Hmmmm... Alcohol is a funny thing. See, it doesn't put ideas into your head. It only makes you more likely to do things you might otherwise decide are wrong. Your boyfriend chooses to get drunk and act that way.
He is not allowed to treat you that way. If you allow it, then you are giving him permission to abuse you.
He obviously has a problem with drinking and not knowing what's enough and what's appropriate behavior, so you need to move on and let him go be wit' his hot bitches. If he thinks he can get laid so easily, let him go.
You, on the other hand, have better things to do, like find a man who either doesn't drink or can hold his liquor without becoming a man-slut. I would be willing to bet this this isn't his first time doing this.
Sabine
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thanks, it turns out he was just saying that to try to change my mind to make me come. he is a big jerk when he is drunk, he thinks he is being funny but he isn't
Rating changed by L2 moderator - hailebop
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