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Okay I have an ex boyfriend that won't get the hint that I am in a loving relationship., well today he decided to call me and was mad because I might be pregnant. Well anyways he told me that he still wants to be friends and everything he just didn't want me to tell him about me and my boyfriend. Which it's hard to do, because I love him so much. But what really upsets me is that we were supposed to be friends, when he just told me tonight he doesn't care what I do, but that he still loves and misses me and wished he could have me back, what am I supposed to do? Keep being friends with him, or tell him where to get off at????
Hi,
I think that he needs to move on but its hard for him and you need to understand that. Im sure he knows thats what he needs to do but you need to sit and talk about everything because im sure he still wants to be your friend. I mean its better to have a friend than him be mad at you all the time and end up not being your friend. I mean you should have alot of respect for him and i dont think you should talk about your boyfriend to him because thats hard to hear when hes still in ove with you. I mean im sure if that was you you wouldnt want to hear about your ex boyfriends girlfriends thats really hard to take in. Just sit and talk to him about it and see what he has to say and if you dont want him in your life anymore than stop talking to him. But if you want him in your life as a friend or w/e than keep talking to him and be his friend. But you need to tell him that you guys are just friends and only friends because your with someone else. Ok well good luck with this and if you need anymore help you can ask me in my inbox ok?
Hope i helped out!?
~katelyn~
(Rating: 5) Thanx Katelyn, I really think also if he wants to be my friend he needs to understand his boundaries and realize, she's got a boyfriend and a son to boot. And she doesn't want to hurt any of us but she wants to be happy. So I will just let her be instead of telling me what he thinks I want to here. I'm just tired of his lies, if that makes any sense. If you have anymore advice on this please let me know thanx again.