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i met this guy about 6 months ago.
i told myself that i would not fall for him but a little over two months ago we had sex. He took my virginity and i ended up falling in love with him. i told him how i feel and he was fine with it i told him i was sorry and he said don't be. Well two weeks ago we got into this argument and he told me to get over him and to stop talking to him.
i am miserable, depressed and i feel like i have no reason to smile or be happy anymore. Ive lost alot of respect for myself. none of my friends understand me or they say they don't but when i ask them what should do they say talk to him. yes maybe i do need to talk and tell him how i feel right now but he will not listen to me.
i miss this guy.
ive cried myself to sleep the last three nights.
please give me advice as to what will make me feel better.
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Clearly you actually have legitamate feelings toward him, but as much as you want, which if you truly can't sleep, you must, then you have to let him go. Since you gave your virginity to him you will always have a sort of connection to him, and what he said may have been in the heat of the argument, but you need to move on.
If he eventually does want you back, then that decision is up to you, but until he makes that move, just try to distance yourself a bit. Date someone, just keep a lookout for him.
You never know, he may just need a little time and space.
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