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hi everyone im katelyn. I love giving advice and taking some too! im a very open person and a very nice person. Well i think im a very nice person but thats up to u to decide wat i am. I think i am a very loving, caring, and honest person. I have my bad days but who doesnt?!?!? I am very trusting and u can tell me anything. I will try to help anyone i can and anyway i can.
xoxo
~katelyn~

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14/f


theres a guy who i've been inlove with for about 2 years since we've went out then broken up. he totally ignored me for half a year and i was depressed pretty much. then we became friends with benifits. it was suppost to be secret but i told and some word got out, he basically hated me for 2 months. then he would tell me he wanted to be friends with benifits. this went on and off threw out april threw october in 2006. we had sex the first time over summer then he said he never should have because he loved someone else. he never had feelings for me just lust, but i had feelings for him (stupid i know).. i just cant say no to him. then when had amazing sex in october and he said we had to stop bc he was inlove with someone else. it hurt. for around 5 monthes i tried to forget about him. we never talked. then a week ago we started talking again and it seemed like we were normal friends. now we plan on having sex another time soon because we can't stop lusting over each other. i know he likes someone else and this little secrect hookup has to end sometime like before, i just don't know what i should do.. have sex with him or just keep putting it off and avioding him. i really don't know if i love him but i just feel a strong feeling towards him and its so intense. and when we'd hook up he seemed not even to care but then when we would finally talk about what we did he would admit a bunch of stuff. he can't show feelings at all. im so sorry this is confusing, but i just need comfort. i don't want to tell anyone else about this whole issue because its my responsiblity to make sure no one finds out. i mean if everone knows ive done it 3 times before i was even 14 they'd never stop talking about me. just please help

hi,
i think that you should try to stop having sex with this guy. First off he doesnt even like you he likes someone else so hes just using you. I think you should end thi svery soon beofre the person hes involved with finds out and that wont be pretty. If hes with someone else then he cheating on that person and do you want to be the girl he did it with? I dont think so because people will be talkin more bout that then bout you even having sex at this age. Its hard to forget bout him but sometimes you have to do things for the better and if you end it now you wont get hurt anymore. Ok well if you need anymore help you can im me my sn is
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~katelyn~

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