Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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Last night my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. I have had other boyfriends before and the breaking up wasnt so bad. But I wasnt ready for this one. I cried for like 3 hours straight on the phone with my best friend. I finally got to sleep around 2 oclock. I am having such a hard time...I dont know what to do . I really loved him and obviously its too late to get him back now.. so please dont suggest that. What can I do to feel better. It's so horrible.. nothing this bad has ever happened to me. I'm a happy-go-lucky kind of person what will people think when I'm moping around school on monday ???
I cant eat, i cant sleep and later today I have to sit through a broadway play with my mother. I'm going to die...HE was so wonderfull..
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Hey,
aww, thats okay. It's going to be alright okay? I can help you out here.
Well first of all, I wouldn't suggest getting him back. Thats really not the smartest thing for someone to suggest, so if anyone ever suggests that to you like in the future tell them they're an idiot.
Okay, so first thing you have to do is start working on the getting over him part. You have to think forward to the good things that this will bring okay? I understand what you mean about people wondering whats going on monday when you're still alittle upset, because that would probably be one of my worries too, but you just have to try to put him out of your mind, I'll try and halp you with that.
Okay so there are lots of steps to moving on. The first one i alsway suggest is getting involved, and seeing as you're a happy go lucky person, you probably are pretty involved in school seeing as they kind of go hand in hand, But you need to find something completely new. Like start volunteering some where or find a new sport or something, because it signifies achievment and the moving on process, so you need to pick something totally new.
Then theres spending time doing things that make you that happy go lucky person you are. Plan big things with your friends and look forward to those when you are upset about this kay?
Then theres me time. You have to set aside time each week to just hang out and have a bubble bath and totally relax not thinking about him.
The last step is finding someone new. It's the very last step, and there are more in between, but you might not neeed to hit all of them, so I'll just mention this one, basically you need to pick a random guy to think about to get your mind off of him. HE doesnt have to be someone you'll ever date, just someone to think about. That hot guy in math class that has a girlfriends already or that kid in math whose cute, but you just could never see yourself with him. Just think about what would ever happen if you two got together and just basically pretend that you would be chaeting on them to think about your ex.
Things will look up okay? You're going through something rough now, but it will get easier, and if you need any more help I've got your back so don't worry about it this will get better. Good luck, and I hope I helped. Love ya,
Angie91
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