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Ok well if anyone has read my other question you would kno that i hav been daing someone for 3 weeks now and he wants to have sex with me. but i didnt know if he was using me or not.
Well he sed that he will wait but he wants to finger me and stuff. Should i let him or should i just want because im scared that he might get the idea that i want to have sex with him soon but i dont. Im going to the movies with him on saturday and he wants to feel my up my skirt and stuff should i let him do that or not? I want him too but idk if thats the right choice. Please help!! thanks (link)
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The only person you should be asking this question is yourself, as only you know how you feel and whether you are ready or not.
However, three weeks is a very short time and I'm surprised you are happy to make out with him let alone go past that! I think that by letting him finger you/have sex with you after three weeks will just earn you a reputation (and not the sort that you want) and besides, do you really feel close enough to him to do these things? Is he really that special?
If you want to wait, wait. And tell him that you're not ready, or you just don't want to do this stuff yet. If he's a decent bloke he'll respect your opinions and wait for you, if he refuses to listen to you then he is definitely not worth the hassle, so chuck him right away.
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