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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)

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Ok I'm going to tell ya right now If u dont like clique questions stop reading. I'm the leader of a clque, I'm the most popular girl in my school and I have 4 great friends we have weekly sleep overs and things like that and theres this new girl at my school who came in and took my friends I dont want to be mean to her (which is taking all my will power) so wat should I do????

You can try to be friends with her too. I used to be really cliquey, until none of my friends were in half of my classes. I was left out and felt like I had no friends because I'm not really super close with anybody, I'm just close with my certain 4 friends. I wasn't really comfortable around other people that I'm usually just acquantences with because I'm always with the same friends all the time. I wish I wasn't so cliquey. Honestly, a person can't technically take your friends away from you, it's alright if your friends made a new friend - don't be mean to her, be nice and maybe she'll end up being one of your best friends. Try not to include yourself in just you clique, try to be closer friends with people outside of your group. It really helps, and in the future you'll be more accustomed to making new close friends. I'm strating to make new friends this year, and I honestly feel like I'm coming out of a shell.

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(Rating: 4) Thanks thats a good answer but one thing is im not in a shell.
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