I am a fun and very outgoing person who loves to have a great time and i love going to parties. I am also very sociable and kind. I love to go to the beach and go shopping.
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: none
Age: 15
Member Since: March 20, 2007
Answers: 18
Last Update: March 22, 2007
Visitors: 1799
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One of my friends introduced me to a guy that goes to the school I might have to switch to next year. My best friend(who goes to that school) got us together after we had hit it off really well the first few times we saw each other. Before we broke up, we talkedto each other everyday. We talked about everything, too. When we broke up we still talked to each other everyday, but about a moth after that he got a new girl friend. I stopped calling him and didn't talk to him for about 1 month. When I was going out with him my best friend who htes him, tried to get me to break up with him saying "He's not a virgin, all he wants from you is sex, and I didn't really think he would actually ask you out." And now she swears it saying I would be a whore or something to get backwith him. Then just about a week ago he calledme, saying "I'm sorry for hurting you, I never really wanted to but it was a long distance relationship and I thought I actually liked her but all she wanted was sex, and I'm not giving that to her." And I believed him. When I told my friend she said he was just faking it and that he probably wanted the sex and she wouldn't give it to HIM. I've always believed my ex, and my friend, but i don't know who to belive now. And just the other day, his brother who is my freind, one of the best ones I know, was teasing me and him because we are virgins. Who do you think I should believe and should I ask him about it? and shout I not get involved with him, even though my friend would probably kill me, but sh'e sgoing out with someone I dislike and wish she wasn't going out with. And my other friends and I have talked about it and I agreed I wouldn't get back with him until I've talked it over with her, and him both, together. PLEASE HELP ME. Thank you for your help
Jenn (link)
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Well Jenn you have a big choice to make. First you need to ask yourself if your ready to have sex with him when he is ready. Personally i think that the whole thing with him not wanting to have sex with the girl is BS but maybe im wrong. If you really care about him then you will forget what your friend is saying and do what you want to do. Then again she is probably just trying to help you out so you should'nt get mad at her if she is mad at you for dating him again. You need to tell her that she is entitled to her opinion but end the end you get the final say in what happens in YOUR LIFE. Its good that you and him can still talk to each other even when your broken up. That shows that your not just some girl he dated but your his friend. Maybe you should try it and see what happens. If you feel like he is pressuring you then you need to tell him enough. And if your friend is really your friend then she will be there for you with open arms.
Good luck
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thx 4 the advice- my life is so scwered because of this
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