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Q: One of my friends introduced me to a guy that goes to the school I might have to switch to next year. My best friend(who goes to that school) got us together after we had hit it off really well the first few times we saw each other. Before we broke up, we talkedto each other everyday. We talked about everything, too. When we broke up we still talked to each other everyday, but about a moth after that he got a new girl friend. I stopped calling him and didn't talk to him for about 1 month. When I was going out with him my best friend who htes him, tried to get me to break up with him saying "He's not a virgin, all he wants from you is sex, and I didn't really think he would actually ask you out." And now she swears it saying I would be a whore or something to get backwith him. Then just about a week ago he calledme, saying "I'm sorry for hurting you, I never really wanted to but it was a long distance relationship and I thought I actually liked her but all she wanted was sex, and I'm not giving that to her." And I believed him. When I told my friend she said he was just faking it and that he probably wanted the sex and she wouldn't give it to HIM. I've always believed my ex, and my friend, but i don't know who to belive now. And just the other day, his brother who is my freind, one of the best ones I know, was teasing me and him because we are virgins. Who do you think I should believe and should I ask him about it? and shout I not get involved with him, even though my friend would probably kill me, but sh'e sgoing out with someone I dislike and wish she wasn't going out with. And my other friends and I have talked about it and I agreed I wouldn't get back with him until I've talked it over with her, and him both, together. PLEASE HELP ME. Thank you for your help
Jenn
You should talk to him about it befor taking sides. I mean i dont know either of them so its hard for me to tell you who to believe, but i mean it kindof depends how trustworthy they both are. And you should defenently get back with him after you solve that :] you sound like you really like him. I was in this part of the situation befor. Your friend shouldnt get mad for who you date, they need to get out of all your business. They dont pick who you like/love and they defenently dont make your decisions for you. i hope i helped :]

thx 4 the advice- my life is so scwered because of this

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breannee
Hi, Im Breanne. I love to have fun. And i guess im pretty good at giving advice.? Mostly at the whole boyfriend/girlfriend, problems with friends or people thing.



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