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So i was wondering, if you GUYS could answer, what turns you on more a girl with a body type like kiera knightley/sasha cohen or a girl with a body type thats maybe 10-20 lbs overweight. I respect everyone's oppinons but i feel self-consciounce because my body type is more of the kiera knightley/sasha cohen type...and i have no confidence from my body cause i feel that people look at me as anorexic, but then when i see girls overweight in a bikini they have all the confidence in the world and i'm kinda of like the wallflower in that type of situation so would you rather date a girl wiht a body type like kiera knightleys/sasha cohens or someone thats like 10-20 lbs overweight and why?? (please don't say someehting like loooks don't matter) this is a situation if you had the choice. thanks (link)
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I know there are guys who appreciate both body types, but you need to focus less on your body and more on who you really are. Maybe those "overweight" girls in bikinis have confidence because they don't obsess over their appearances that much.
You probably feel the way that you do (about people thinking you're anorexic) because you're overly self-conscious about your body. You don't need to do that. When guys look at you they'll see a girl who is critical of herself, which is very unattractive. (being critical of yourself)
The truth of the matter is- you will NEVER be completely satisfied with your body. No one ever can be. There is always something that you will dislike about your body/appearance no matter how much weight you lose/gain. So that's why you need to focus more on your personality and the positive things about your appearance.
I hope I helped- even though this was probably not necessarily the kind of answer you were looking for.
PS: you may want to consider seeing a counselor about your serious lack of self-confidence.
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