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14/f
my boyfriend and i were fighting last weekend, i was feeling upset so i texted my friend who i know and he is a boy, but my boyfriend has never met him. when my boyfriedn came to apologize we were ok until he wanted to read the messages on my cell. i deleted them. he can't trust me anymore.today we had the same problem!! but i deleted the messages..he thinks i am playing him but i am not..!! so herres the situation i am in:: my bf now has a problem in trusting me because he thinks i am playing him and i luv him and i don't want to loose him.how can i let him know the truth or something???sorry if this is confusing

Okay, I might be wrong but this is my instinct. A normal, trusting BF doesn't ask to see your texts. So he is either insecure,plain suspicious of you, or he is trying to distract you because HE is actually playing YOU. I think its the third. Have you ever given him any reason before to not trust you? If not, he wants to make himself feel better about his unloyalty by making you feel guilty. Even if he isnt cheating, he is uncommunatative and distant and doesn't trust you. All reasons to show him the door.

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(Rating: 5) i've never gave him a reason not to before..anyway thankss
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