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well, to start with, my boyfriend and i were together for 7 months and i'm pretty sure i loved him. i broke up with him because we fought way too much. for about a week we didnt talk and he literally went crazy..he was extremely heartbroken and he got very depressed and did drugs etc..after a few weeks we became close again..TOO close.. we still hung out and i began telling him i loved him again and it even got to the point where we were kissing and cuddling when we hung out. well, a couple months ago i had told him i hadnt kissed any other guys when i had actually kissed two and he found out and got mad and it started a big ordeal because we were single and i didnt see the big deal. i knew it was wrong that i lied though. anyways, about a month ago i hung out with this guy and started to like him, and my ex boyfriend got extremely mad and called me a liar and said i played him for kissing him and then starting to like another guy..but i couldnt control it..well anyways my ex boyfriend and i decided to stop talking, and about 2 weeks ago he left me EXTREMELY MEAN voicemails calling me a worthless slut, saying he hated me and to burn in hell and im a bitch, etc. i called him back and told him i didnt want us to be hostile (i was crying while talking to him) and he had no right to say that and he told me to stop crying and then he ended up being mean again so i hung up. shortly after, he left me MORE voicemails, not to mention got on aim and called me a whore, etc. needless to say, i completely stopped talking to him. about a week and a half later he called and apologized and i told him i'm glad he apoligized but i cant forgive him right off the bat and were better off not talking because that was just unneccessary and he really hurt me and he said that was fine because he had loved me way too much to be only friends with me. so we havent been talking for about a week and a half and the thing is..I MISS HIM LIKE CRAZY. im trying to move on and i didnt let any of it bring me down..but heres my question..should i begin talking to him..only as friends..and tell him i forgive him..or just let it be and let myself move on? i really do like talking to him and he was always here for me..but yeah..any opinions on what would be best will help! thank you and ahh im so sorry this is so long

comming from one of your best friends..thats hard cause if you miss him you might start to like him again and if you dont talk to him then you might move on...go with your heart..haha

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