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okay well im set that my dad is cheating on my mom. these are the things that lead me to beleive that.
1. when we first got our sprint cell phones, he only got me 500 text msgs a month because he said, "if you need to tell/ask someone something, just call them" and stuff like "texting is stupid" "its so pointless" yatta yatta. but i was cool with it. well i went over twice and he said "if oyu go over again, you get your phone taken away" then like yte next day, he texts me and says he got me unlimited and he unblocked texting from his phone, so now HE could text. i was like... okay?? but COOL. then one he was texting like CRAZY and i was just like "who ya text'n" and he was like "NONE OF YOU FREAKIN BUSINESS" and he like, hisd his phone. and he talks on it every night when my moms not home and when i ask, "who ya talkn to?" (real casually) he freaks out and says "WHY DOES IT MATTER?!?!"
2 he says he need to go to the grocerie store and i was like "okay" w/e. and i asked him to get me some peach tea. he was gone for like a hour and a half but i though "oh he's probably buying a bunch of stuff" you know? but he came back and the ONLY thing he had bought was my peach tea... i was like "wow. that took forever. and all you bought was peach tea?" (cause we are like low on food, and i had nothing to eat) and he got all defensive and was like "JUST CHILL OUT, OKAY?"
3 he always talks crap about my mom behind her back. little things that dont even matter. they are pointless. like we are talking about something that has nothing to do with her and he'll bring up somthing bad about her and go on raving about it.
4 he's been late coming home from work lately
5 i know this seems gross, but they never like, kiss or flirt with each other anymore. and im pretty sure they dont have sex. (ew, but a necessity in a relationship)
so idk. what do you guys think? its freaking me out. omggg. and if you think he IS, what do i do????? i am so helpless. do i tell someone. who? do i talk to him about it??? gaww im so lost. ):
thank in advance.
xoxo (:
ps. my parents have been separeted MANY times before and devorced twice but got back together both times. (link)
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Ok, i think that you should talk to your dad
Whats the worst that can happen?
He should know that you care about him
and your mom
so all you wanna do is know the truth
Just ask him a simple question like
"whats going on with you and mom?"
or
"Hows mom lately?"
or even
"Are you ok?"
It might feel awkward
and he might even get a little mad
but im sure that he loves you alot
and he will talk to you
And he might not even be cheating on your mom
Maybe hes just stressed out lately or something
like that
I really hope that this helps
Let me know what happens
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well i decided to go to my mom and just tell her what ive witnessed. i told her i wasnt sure that he was cheating, but you have a right to know and everything (cause she has been worknig an extra job at the rodeo lately so she hasnt been home). my mom said they hadnt talked in a while and when she DID try to talk to him, he wouldnt talk to her. they are getting a divorce. now i have a new problem. my parents keep bugging me about who i want to live with. and thats deffinatly not easy. gawd. oi hate my life so freaking much.
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