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okay i know that im pretty. but it only really shows when i get back from school (like for some weird reason i look best after school then when i did in it) and in the summer. i have wavy blonde hair and blue eyes and im skinny. i have a rash thing tho on my arm that i so need to get rid of. (any ideas?) i work out so im not fat or anything but like i never had a boyfriend and im like 13. i know people havent had bfs who are older then me but still... and like i desperatly need a bf becausee people at school think im a lez. which.. im so not. im really shy at school so maybe thats why i cant get a bf? out side of school im really loud and stuff && guys lovee me from other towns and ask me out all the time (i turn them down) but in school. no. i am so quite. and im popular like with people in other schools but.. not mine. so. yeah. i wanna be popular at mine =[

adviceee!

&& you know what is they gayesttt? like girls at my school can be like ugly. but get a bf. im the what the freakkk. and like.i really picky tho. so thats probably a reason. ha

Dude. don't worry about it. Honestly having a boyfriend isnt as great as its cracked up to be. and if your crumby classmates think you're a lesbian, So what. You know you're not, and your friend's know it too.

and If all you want is to be popular. Your priorities are ALL wrong. The fat ugly girls with boyfriends probably have boyfriends because they're looking at PERSONALITY, not looks.
Believe it or not, Guys like girls who can think for themselves, and aren't superficial, and don't waste they're lives spending Mommy and Daddy's money, and crying over little things like not getting a boyfriend.

and By the way, don't say "like" so much. its a turn-off for most guys.

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