HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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So I have a pretty good relationship with my Lord and Savior- Jesus Christ. A strange (but not bad) thing happened to me back in september- and I have yet to figure out why He did this.
This is what happened: I was 13 over the summer- and I spent the whole time crying because I was single and I felt unloved and unworthy of having a relationship. I was praying for a boyfriend a lot too. I felt God speak to me and tell me that he would send me a nice boy who was new to my theater group (that starts in september) who would hit on me. He didn't lie- because on the first night of the class this amazingly attractive and nice 17-yr-old guy told me I was pretty and he asked for my number. I felt like I was dreaming. He called me later that night and started talking to me and we were setting up a date and then he told me how he had Asberger's Syndrome.
So, my point is- I don't see why God would send me such a perfect man exept for his mental disorder. When we figured out it wouldn't work out- it left me in the worst depressed state. I turned to alcohol as well.
I'm confused.
If anyone has any ideas- they'd be greatly appreciated. (link)
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ok tell you something.Sometimes when you pray to god for something God doesnt fufill it for you.WHy you ask?It is beacause sometimes what you want can HARM you in a way.Like what happened to you here.You prayed for a looong time for a boyfreind and didnt get one for a long time...that was a sign that what you wanted was not good for you and to prove that...things didnt work with you and this guy.And other times God dont accept your wishes cuz hes saving you something BETTER in the future,so you have to be patient!Your only 13 and you have your whole life ahead of you.Dont rush it.And get away from alcohol cuz it will make your life worse...if you think alcohol is going to solve anything,im sorry to say itll only give you diseases and will harm you and worst of all WONT GET YOU A BOYFREIND!!Just wait and see...who knows mabey the next year youll meet a cute guy that god sent you!!
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thank you for your time and consideration.
I'm not "only 13" actually though. It just so happens i'm 14 1/2. i look 17.
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