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5'4" 110-115 lbs.

i'm so grossed out by my body. i feel so fat all the time. how can I learn to love my body? or at least be okay with it?

Ok at first when I read that. I thought "I'm shorter and heavier, but I'm still tiny. why is she complaining?" but then I realized, its human nature to not be comfotable with their own looks.
My friend Kate told me this.
Try spending time, In your room alone, naked.
Sounds strange doesnt it? But it works.
You know how when You meet someone new, and you start hanging around with them, you become comfotable with who they are and you start to love'em. well its the same concept.
Read a book, sit at the computer, sleep, whatever, just time by yourself, naked. (with the blinds closed if you have neighbors, and the door locked if you have people that randomly like to walk in your room.)
~Webby

P.S. Keep a bathrobe handy, just incase someone knocks on the door.

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