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Q: My friend Nick broke a vase at my house party, that I held very dear, and he absolutely refuses to pay for it. Should I continue to be his friend, or should I stop?
All right. Have you tried to tell him how much thr vase meant to you? If not, you should. If you already told him this, than I would assume he would pay for the vase. But since he doesn't want to, I'd talk to him once more explaining that if you had done something like that to him, you'd pay for it because it was your fault. Maybe the vase isn't more than your friendship with him. But it was important to you and he needs to recognize that, a friend SHOULD recognize that. I'm not going to tell you that you can't be his friend anymore but I suggest becominga bit distant and maybe he'll have a better realization of what he needs to do.

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