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Alright, so I love my boyfriend very VERY much.. and I know that if I ask him if he wants to have sex, he'll say yes. Now, I want to and all, and I'm ready.. Buuuut.. I'm wondering about other people's opinion on having sex at a young age. I'm 15, he's 16, we're both virgins.. and we've been going out for 3 months, but we've known and liked each other for a year. We were best friends during all that time, and even if he weren't my boyfriend, I think I would have still had sex with him because we're just very close like that.

My question is, what is your opinion though? Should we just do it now, in a year, when we're married.. and why? Thanks :)

well if you feel ready and you really love him. then do it.

personally, i think you should wait. because your young ya know? and you've only known him for a year and you've only been dating for 3 months. so i mean maybe you should wait a couple more months because you never know how can it effect your relationship and stuff, so wait a little longer and make your relationship stronger. and make sure you really do love him, i mean it's not called "making love" for any reason. plus your first time is supposed to be shared with someone really special to you

but if you do have sex, make sure its safe!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you. And he is definitely special to me :)
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