Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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today i got with a boy and he has no gf and i dont have a bf..we made out twice. and then we decided to just be friends. now everyone is calling me a whore for getting with him when we werent going out ! ugh what do i do, its not lke i make out with someone everyday; that was my first time. what do i say ot people when they say that ? ah thanks (link)
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Well first of all, guys like kissing, so he may have thought it was a mistake or whatever, but he wasn't going to let himself not kiss you some more. So that's why he came back. You're not a whore, people use that word way too often, and you really did nothing wrong. Like you said neither of you or attached, but some people are just jealous, and try to make other people feel bad. Thats why they are doing it. When people call you a name, you should just ignore them. Don't shrugg it off because then they think you know but don't care. Just nodd, and pretend it only bothers you a tiny bit, and that it isnt going to make you quit what you are doing, but it doesnt make you feel good to hear them say it. In a few days it will blow over, all you have to do is wait it out. In a few days another girl will make out at a party and everyone will say she's a whore. So it's all okay.
But I have a suggestion, I don't think it's wise for you to randomly go around kissing guys. It's not that big of a deal, but kissing is kinda important, and if you're wise, you want guys to have to make a commitment to you in order to "get the goods" (hehe). Sure kissing may not seem like much to you, but if you think of it as something thats worth a lot, then maybe when guys want it, then they'll have to make a commitment, and that way you can get a great boyfriend, and you wont be known by any bad names. I hope I answered your question. Love ya,
Angie91
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