I'm so sorry!

There's nothing you can do to control the situation. But I want you to understand that your grandma probably needs to be in high hopes for her. Things happen and we don't know why, but if there is one thing you can do, you can keep her comforted by your words.

You really should cry about it and think about it first. This will not make you forget about it, but it will ease the pain a little bit if you give yourself time to cope. Find something you like to do such as taking a walk or writing, or drawing.

After you give it some time, try and lift your grandma and your family's spirits. They are going to need someone to stay positive. Encourage her to talk to her doctors and make sure that you ask what you can do to make your grandma comfortable.

If you're religious, keep praying!

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After reading this again, I just want to ask you if she is in the hospital currently?

It doesn't look like it would be too serious. I'm thinking that her blood pressure may have dropped from the surgery and she needs to get more blood. OR she may have an infection. So definitely talk to her doctor and ask that she be checked for those things. Hopefully she is on IV fluid so that she can recover.

Infection or loss of blood is probably it. But I'm not 100 percent sure.

I will definitely keep her in my thoughts!

Hang in there!

-Shannon

Thank you so much! Your advice helped so much. She is not im the hospital(thankfully) so you are prob. right. It's not that serious. Thanks again so so much.

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