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Alright I know we all hate these questions but im finally in a position to ask for help.....
Here it goes...

I have a boyfriend of 4 months...But basically 6 months from the time we really started talking.
Then i have a boy that i was on and off with for 2 years. We never "went out" but we hooked up and EVRYTIME we see eachother we always get these feelings back!!!

Well this other guy called every 2 weeks asking if i am still together with my BF and i say yes and hes like okay il ttyl. So finally he called 3 days ago and he wanted to hangout so i was like YEAH!!! so I hungout 2 days NON stop. And I got these feelings back.
I missed him SOOO much.
And ive thought about him while being together with my BF.
BUT my boyfriend knows about the relationship we had or 2 years and that we were on and off and that we like loved eachother.

What do i do?
Do i leave my Bf who I love?
For someone Ive loved 2 years?
I keep thinking i should do I can just HAVE FUN for a while! But Im scared of doing that and Missing my BF terribly.
This is killing me and i havent said much to my bf I kinda avoid calls cause I wanna decide before I talk to him so I have something to say.

PLEASE HELP!!!!!!! (link)
well there might be a reason that you and that other boy never went out. There are more to relationships then "hooking up". I think that you should take some time to really think if you love your boyfriend or if you love this other guy. You cant have both. Talk to the guy that youve known for 2 years and make sure that he wants to persue a relationship as much as you because you wouldnt want to throw away your current boyfriend for some jerk. Make sure your not going to regret anything. Talk to them both and maybe youll find out which one will give you what you want.

good luck!


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thanks for the advice.
I think im dumping the bf so I canhave FUN!!!
I dont want love.
i want fun.




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