Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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It's a known fact that guys don't go out with girls who aren't skinny, gorgeous, and flawless which is really unfair because i happen to be none of the above. Basically, I NEEEED a boyfriend, like its beyond just wanting to be with somebody it's a need to have that special somebody. Sure, there's friends and whatnot and they're important too (don't get me wrong) but sometimes you want somebody that can be more than just a friend to you. It's frustrating because some girls can get a boyfriend in a split second without even having to blink. people like me on the other hand have to sit back and watch these people and envy them while they work their charm. So what can I do to be more like them? To be glamorous and amazing so that guys will want me as much as they want those other girls? PLEASE HELP. (link)
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You know it's really sad reading your question, because I, like you, are not one of those girls you described. I'm a teenager and I also watch all of those girls who get the guys, but you know why they get them? It's because they try hard to get the guys attention and often degrate themselves to get what they want. And yeah I know, sometimes I wish I had a boyfriend too. But I'm happy that I have great friends to hang out with, and sometimes yeah I want more, I want that guy to love and spend time with, but you have to realize that teenage love sucks. It's just a popularity contest most of the time, and you'll realize that one day you'll meet a guy who wont care what you look like or what you're wearing. He'll like you because you're you, and you'll realize that everything you did to make yourself stand out as a kid, was stupid, because you had to change who you are to be something you're not to get a guy to like you. Right now that doesnt seem like that big of a deal but one day when you sit there with your husband who loves you because you are who you are and nothing more, you'll think I'm glad that I didnt degrate myself down to being a slut or whatever else just to get a few extra boyfriends when I was a teenager. The right man will come along. Maybe it will be when you're a teenager, and maybe it will be when you're older. But don't worry you will have a boyfriend one day. And you will be proud of yourself and it will feel right because you're being you, and not one of those flawless girls who are skinny and "gorgeous". You're gorgeous. You're beautiful, and if guys don't see that then they are idiots. I know because I could have boyfriends if I stooped down to that level. But I don't want too, so you can take other peoples advice and try and get that boyfriend you desperatly want, or you can take my advice and wait for the right guy to come along. Good luck, and I hope I gave you some insight. Remember there are more important things in life than a Boyfriend. Love ya lots,
Angie91
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Wow. I don't know what to say. That really helped A LOT. Thank you soooo much.
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