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im melanie. im 16 years old. i will be a junior in high school. i love giving advice and helping people :D everyone says im good at it, so ASK AWAY! absolutely anything :)

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15/f

Alright, so i have two best friends. They went to a party the other night. I was walking with one of them home and she told me what she was doing and i was shocked. She said that he went out drinking at the party with my other friend, and they were making out with guys and whatever. I know it may not be a shock to you, but they would NEVER do that.. and when she told me i was devestated...although i could'nt tell her, i was dropping hints, but that doesn't help much... so now i have no idea what to do, i figured that they would never do something like that and now, im by myself... the only person who has probably never gotten drunk in my entire grade....but thats not the problem, the problem is i dont think i will be able to forgive them... i dont care if you think its what all teenagers do, its not because im living proof that not all teenagers drink and smoke, so dont give me that. I just want to know how to cope with it.

honestly i think your making the right choice. If i were you i wouldnt hang out with your friends who drink, i know you probably think im crazy that im telling you to not hang with your besties, but if you do keep hanging out with them they might pressure you into drinking or maybe even drugs, thats what happened to my aunt when she was in her teenage years. Trust me if your friends keep drinking and get hooked, they'll regret it when there older..so live above the influence and be smart, and make good choices:]
hope i helped

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