Hey,my name is Amanda aka Mandy,and im 16. Like most teen girls ive had my fare share of boyfriends, break ups, friend, health, and family issues. I guesse you can say ive been throught the whole teen drama. Il Try my best to give good advice!
E-mail: xox_mandy_16@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Oshawa, Ontario
Occupation: ...Student....
Age: 16
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I have been friends with this guy since Sophmore year in High School, I'm now a freshman in College (19 years old), we are going to the same college. Anyways with all the stress of college none of us have time for a boy friend or girl friend but we both do enjoy sex, yes, I will put it that bluntly. We both started this friends with benefits relationship with no strings and no questions asked and this started in the beginning of the school year. I recently met this guy who I have feelings for, actual relationship feelings for and really want to give it a shot. He has admitted his feelings to me on occasions before and we are now going out. The guy I had the friends with benefits relationship I tried to end it off with but he got mad and psycho! He started yelling at me and calling me a slut and all these names. I think he had actual feelings for me! The other day we met up because I had to tell him that there is no future for us and I don't need a friend with benefit anymore and he got even more mad, and I have never seen him like this before. I reported him to the police because I was terrified. He is now in the hospital and got 'evaluated' and he has bi-polar disorder and is taking pills. I feel guilty, should I? Isn't this my fault, if we never started this maybe this wouldn't have happened? Should I talk to him about the situation now that he is on meds or should I never see him again? He is still my friend and I don't want to back down on him... what should I do?? (link)
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You should definatly keep beeing freinds with the guy, its not his fault he had an bipolar episode he can't control that. About talking to him about the situation, if you feel like you still need to go ahead... but i would hold off on talking to him about it a little... maybe to see what he says.
well hopes this helps!
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