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Q: f/16. I've never been in a real relationship before, and I've only been on maybe 3 or 4 dates. But that's not the problem. I don't want this to come out sounding conceited, but I do think I'm a fun person, pretty, and smart. I don't have problems with guys liking me. I've been asked out five times this year. But the problem is, I always say no! Even when they're cute guys. I don't know why. I'm outgoing and a "people - person", and I want to have a boyfriend, but for whatever reason I have a problem starting relationships. Am I too picky? I keep telling myself that I'm holding out for the "right guy", but am I being too idealistic? Anyhow, anyone who has had this same problem ... your advice is appreciated! :)
oh wow, trust me, im in the exact position. when i reject a guy yeah, i feel conceited, but i cant help it if i just dont like the guy! everyone deserves to go out with someone they really like. my oppinion, you shouldnt settle for just any guy unless you really really want a bf. i mean you derserve a guy whos going to make you happy, and since youre outgoing, youll find him soon enough. oh and yeah theres other ppl like that, im one of them, i dont just settle for what i can get.

thanks! :)

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