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Gender: Female
Member Since: February 13, 2007
Answers: 4
Last Update: February 20, 2008
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if your bf of one year physically hurts you..like kicks you in the leg..punches you in stomcach..throws you on the ground..pins you down..grabs you by the jaw..you get the picture..well anyway if that happened to you..and you have been together for a year and nothing like that ever happened..what would you do? would you forgive him? after how long? would you make him get help? i mean..we've all done really dumb stuff before...

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he= 18/m (link)
The thing you gotta think about is this. Are you willing to stay in a relationship that you get abused. And are you willing to risk it happening again. There are so many people out there in the world that go through this same thing. And at first im sure they dont think it would happen to them or they believe the person when they tell them it will not happen again. And then they get told the same thing the next time and the next time. If they know they can get away with it and you still be there then what would stop them from doing it again? You can find someone that truly loves you. Someone that would never do anything to hurt you. The kind of love that you deserve and want. My advice would be to definetly leave him. If he has hurt you, you are better off without him.

I wish you luck.
Tiffany


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