Member Since: February 12, 2007
Answers: 6
Last Update: February 14, 2007
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please help.
i will try to make this short for you guys haha. My best friend who i've been friends with since kindergarten got her first boyfriend about a month ago.(we're freshman) Yeah, it's cute and everything, but holy mother of god it can get annoying. It's Sean this, Sean that (her bf). It's non stop details about them and how awesome everything is. All days it's "has he been looking at me...do you think he likes my shirt? what about my hair?" goodness... And then i have to hear about all the stuff he says to her about him loving her and stuff. and she sends me long emails and crap with buttloads of info about their conversations and i cannot take it. I've addressed her politely about it and we're open about things with one another, but she won't stop. IMAGINE NON-STOP QUESTIONS LIKE "ok if sean and my relationship were weighed on a scale on how much he likes me...would our relationship be a sumo wrestler or an annorexic girl?" Yeah. I ignored that one. And it sucks because i just broke up with someone recently and i hate that everything is shoved in my face like that. I am not in anyway jealous, and i know that because i am secure with myself and i do not wish to be in any sort or "relationship" right now. Help please. There are no signs that this mindless chatter between she and an annoyed, attempting-to-ignore-her-me , is going to die down anytime soon.
p.s. i am sorry it is so long. i know i said it wasnt going to be so long! =/ (link)
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So, I know it'll be hard, because you don't want to hurt her feelings or anything, but i would tell her how you feel. she's your friend, she'll understand. i have a friend that does the same thing, and you're right it gets soo old, but after i talked to her about it, and told her exactly what i felt, she cut down a lot. so just try that. let me know how things go =]
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thank you! i never actaully thought other people had friends who did this. It most def. makes me feel a whole lot better about everything. =)
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