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why do girls cry over guys?

i have this boyfriend, he was like my best friend before we went out. and he was soo sweet. i liked him soo much. and now he kinda chnaged. like he hangs out with his best friend wayy too much and we never talk or do any of the things we used to before we even went out. sometimes he makes me feel like he only wants physical stuff from me. lke making out. but i know thats not how he is cuz we are best friends.

and i have been in a lot of bad relationship. where my boyfrineds always neglected me. i always seem to go out with the guys who are the horrible boyfirneds. thats why im never going to go out with guys for thier looks ever again.

but anyway why do i always feel jealous? and why do i feel neglected by him? sometimes i even cry for stupid reasons like him ditching me to go with his frineds somewhere, or him not calling me or the fact that we dont even flirt anymore.

i have been going out with him for 2 weeks now. i know seems short but it feels like forever maybe because i have liked him for a long time. but i also dumped my recent horrible boyfriend for him beacuse i thought he would treat me better because of all the things he said to comfort me when my other boyfrined treated me like shit.
things were soo like amazing, he always wnated to be with me and i was soo in love/ now its been like a week after we made out for the first time together and things just fell apart. i feel like he got what he wanted and now he neglects me.
i honestly dont feel loved.

but we still like kiss bye and hold hands sometimes. but like we never flirt anymore
sorry this is so long. but im just soo depressed and i dont know what to do.
should i be a bitch to him and show him that im pissed for the ways hes treating me. or be clingy and hope hes clingy back. or just do nothing. or WHAT?? also idk he seems to copy how i act. like if i play mind games with him he plays mind games with me the next day. i dont know ahh i just cnat figure out why i dont get him. becausez i always used to give him girl advice. telling him to play hard to get because thats what girls like. and now i wnat him to be clingy because i love him that much and i miss being close to him...
ahhh =((

never been so depressed over a guy before.

Girls cry because its a way to let out their feelings. It's the way we cope with things. Nothing wrong with it.

If you guys were such good friends and could talk about anything, then try talking to him now. Before you start with the games. Those usually make things way to difficult and worse after a while. So just have a heart to heart with him. Tell him how you feel about the way he treats you. Tell him what you want from him.

If you told him to play hard to get with other girls he may be thinking thats what you want from him. So tell him if you don't want him to continue playing that game with you. Communication is the number one thing in a relationship. If you don't have that it's over. So just talk to him. Thats what it all comes down to.

I hope I helped!

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