Member Since: November 18, 2006
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Last Update: March 7, 2007
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me and my ex went out for a year and 5 months and broke up for a stupid reason. we were an on and off couple but not a bad one.. anyway. when we broke up he got a new girlfriend that i totally hate now and hes only dating her cus he tried to get over me.. and it didnt work. hes still coming over and kissing me and telling me he loves me and hugging me. but he says he loves her and crap. we even had sex.. but ahh i dont know does he really love me or is he using me? (link)
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I've experienced this same situation before i met this guy and we hit it off right a way.. Anyway he had a girlfriend and i knew about it but i didnt want to admit it to myself i just kept telling myself he'll leave her one day to be with me...and you want to know what happened finally one day he told me he loved (and i feel head over heels, first guy to tell me he loved me) a few days later he told me he didnt want to be my friend anymore because he thought we were getting to close and he would cheat on his gf with me again (i feel sooooooo terrible that i ever did this now, but i was really young when this happened). Anyway in my point of view i think he may be using you because he feels safe with you. Do you get what im getting at, sometimes its better to stay with someone that is safe rather than moving onto someong that is a challenge. So i believe (no offense)that he is using you until he lives up enough courage to feel safe with this new girl. But maybe im wrong because i dont know the guy but anyway i hope i helped a little..
Hope Things Work Out
~Jess
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yeah i get what ur saying.. ur right
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