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My name is Kendall. I've had different advice columns before, and this is my new one. I'm good at giving advice, I'm always who my friends come to for help. I'm not here for ratings, I'm here to give people help with their problems. Just because I don't say what you want to hear doesn't mean you should rate me low, or leave rude feedback. The truth can't always be sugarcoated, because thats how life is. I specalize in friends, relationships, and style. I like when people ask questions to my Inbox. Thanks :)

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I've known my friend since third grade and we werent always close friends, but since 6th grade we became best friends. In seventh grade I stopped being her friend for few months and I felt relieved, but at the same time I saw that she seemed like a good person and someone who I could be friends with, so we became friends again. Toward the end of seventh she drove me nuts but at the same time I still liked her. Things have been the same ever since then. Sometimes I cant stand her and dont know why I'm her friend and then 5 minutes later we're okay and I know that she is a good person. Almost everyone who knows her can't stand her and sometimes I definitely understand why, but then again she can be a good person and also she kind of has a hard life. The person she turns to for advice and just to listen is me and I try to help her, but seeing how apart of me cant stand her I would feel bad not being her friend, because I'm basically her only friend. Then again, she can be a real BEEP sometimes. There are these girls who are mean to her and she always says she will say something to them, which she really needs to and she never does, so I try to give her advice and tell her to stick up for herself and she flips out on me and cusses me out. So then I flip out on her and say why are you cussing me out when you should be doing that to them, because I'm the one thats your friend, not them. Our friendship is crazy, because I dont like her, but it's like the other half of me does, but one side can take over so quickly and then go away even quicker. Should I be her friend or not ? And if I do be her friend, what should I say to her,because things have to change.

I don't think you should be her friend. She seems like she has a few issues, and it's hard to deal with that. Unless you are really afraid to lose the good side of her, then I'd stop being her friend. I wouldn't want to deal with all of that either.

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(Rating: 4) Thanks and I'm really going to take this into consideration. :)
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