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Hey im Porsche and im 16! finally! I am a christian with strong beliefs and i am proud of it! I live in England and love to advise people and be able to help them. I do it alot with my friends and they have wacky problems sooo ive probably heard about quite alot! My friends think my advise is good and i hope you do to! I can only really give advise on relationships and mental health becuase thats what i studied soo anything else i will suck at haha! If you need help or advise dont be affriad to ask send me an email! God Bless!
xox Porsche

advice

how do you lose a crush? im a 13 year old girl and i cant stop liking some guy! well, hes cute and nice and all, and sometimes i remind myself of their flaws if they really have any, but it doesnt help. infact, ive never really stopped liking my crushes.. when i was younger, from like first grade to 3rd, crushes were basically meaningless. then from 4th grade on, like my main crush in 4th, 5th, and 6th, if i saw them, i'd still kinda have a crush on them.. and now i like 2 guys, but i dunno who i like better, either............... gosh middle school is hard. and like whenever i hear love songs and stuff i always think of the guys i like! lol

my friend kinda has the same problem. well for her, she thinks of this guy ALL THE TIME. and she cant get him outta her head. i dunno what advice to give her.. i mean, clearly he doesnt like her back, ever since the beginning, and i didnt tell her so it wouldnt be mean, but i kinda nudged at it, by like saying that she should focus on other things and not worry so much over him and such. and she overreacts over every little thing.. like he even asked her out on AIM and she was all jittery and excited.. when hes probably just joking, cause a guy's done that to me too, but it was a joke. but i guess i kinda see why she does that, but what can i do to help her move on? its hard.. shes liked him for like almost 2 years now, and she doesnt have alot of self confidence, and she thinks hes like amazing cause hes funny, nice, popular, and plays football. she doesnt even try to get him to notice her. like she keeps stalking him on myspace! seriously! she saves his pics, and even got his phone # without the guy knowing. but she wont call him, either, or post on his myspace. in my opinion, if she wont even try, then she probably doesnt want it bad enough. so like.. yea.

Heya well for you just lik people and you cant help who u like n if you have liked them for a long time then you will still have feelings for them a while after. You should try and focus on how goreous they are and try and not notice the flaws in the guys you like. Everytime you think of a flaw think of a possitive and then think of how happy ull probs be if you were together!! i find it helps alot!!
As for you friend you should try and persuade her to make him notice her, like leave him a message on myspace. Try and get her to understand that if she doesnt do anything then it will not ever happen. If she refuses then try and attract her attention to other guys who she is closer to. A guy is only amazing if your close to him and he is al of them things and is amazing in your eyes! Try and convince her to either move on or find another guy cos there is plenty of them out there!! I hope this helps. If you need anything else that ive not answerd or helped with just ask!! Good luck! xox Porsche

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(Rating: 5) thanks about the thing for my friend! i actually told her and she said it helped. but for your answer for me.. i should focus on how gorgeous the guys are? wont that make me like them more? ....... oh wait, haha thats for the flaws thing. if i focus on their hottness i'll probably like them even more.
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