HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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im 13/f
i keep getting signs of deppression i used to be a cheerleader until i quit and iv just seemed to give up on everything im smokeing weed now i enjoy just getting drunk and stoned and iv lost all interest in boys and girls (im bi) and even sex at times i dont know what to do iv even cut my leg a couple times please help
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my dear,you must start thinking of what is it that made you be like this is in the first place....what is it that started all of this??Why would you quit being a healthy cheerleader to have sex and go on drugs??Do you know if you have sex now,by the time you are 20,you will have a baaad reputation among the guys,you will have gotten pregnant,you will have STD's and you might even have brain damage because of the drugs you do!!And you might even get this disease that comes from cutting yourself!!i just dont remember what the disease is called haha.Cutting yourself wont make anything better,you can kill yourself and imagine this...if you kill yourself did you ever think of where youll end up after???definetly NOT in heaven!!!you will have lost your beautiful life thats ahead of you AND your afterlife!!imagine that!!You much be closer to God because mabey the reason you ended up like this was because you werent close to god and did alot of sins.What do you want to be when your older?A movie star?a doctor?Imagine what a beautiful career youll have and all the new freinds youll make and the life youll have if you pass school and go to college and have a great diploma!everyone will luv you and respect you but if you have sex and do drugs now,noone will respect you,you 13 and you do this?!what will you do when your older?Im 16 and i never did that.You must think of the consenquences of your actions.Ok heres what you do...the reason that got you depressed,end it now...go confront whoever is bothering you and dont tell me they wont understand..noones that retarted.And i want you to write down on a paper what are the things you are planning to change about yourself...start now!You have nothing to lose!GO BACK TO BEING A CHEERLEADER!!your so lucky you can be one!!i wish i could!!(grrr haha)STop having it with guys or girl or whatever change the way you see things,change your group of freinds,beilive in god and do everything that you wrote on your list that you said you will change.And about drugs...you have to stop.Stop it all in one day,it might be hard but one day of pain and anger is better than a lifetime of having a disease you wont be able to cure.On the day you stop drugs,make sure you do a lottt of things to get your mind off of it.Good luck oh and cutting yourself will not only bruise your skin it will bruise your life because when your older and you look at that scar...youll get depressed and remember all the rough times you were through!!
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Rating: 3
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being religious will just make me worse biotch!
Rating changed from a 2 by L2 mod.
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