Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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I have 2 best friends. One of them has been getting on my last nerve constantly lately. She always thinks she is right, and she is kinda over weight a lot, and she wears tight jeans and low cut shirts, and she's like.. "my boobs are so big, those guys keep looking at them" no they arent that big, its that she's kinda a lot fat. I dont mean to be mean, but she's fat, and very much overweight, and my other friend and I are just sick of her bragging all the time that she thinks guys are checking her out, when really the way she is dressing is drawing attention to her fat... and thats all.
what do i do? (link)
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The same sort of thing happened to me a couple years ago. This girl who used to be my best friend used to brag about all these guys who were like in "love" with her (aka they didnt actually exist...), anyways, she used to flaunt things that were inapropriate, and I never had the heart to tell her, but she started to be really mean to me and my new best friend, and left our group of friends to be "popular" but everyone just felt sorry for her. Lookingback on it now, I totally hate how everyone treated her, but she moved about a year ago, and I haven't heard from her since.
But the chances of that happeneing to you are really slim, so you probably should choose one of these two paths. Theres the one where you are a good friend and are really honest, though she could hate you and never speak to you, or you can choose the one where you just let her live her life, and when she gets older, she'll realize that her life when she was older was really sad, and that if she could go back and change it she would regret it. But theres nothing you can do unless you talk to her. So you have to decide whether its worth the worry and conflict, or if you just want her to go on with her life (or this phase of her life) looking really unappropriate.
AS far as the bragging, you know why they are looking at her, theres no point in tell hershes wrong, because that will just lower her self esteem, and as long as you know the truth whats the harm of keeping it to yourself?
I know the solutions arent great, but if you need any further help, I've been through this stuff before, and I think I can help if you fill me in abit more. Good luck, lotsa love,
Angie91
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you are a super sweetheart, thank you so much.
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