Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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hey everyone.
my best friends boyfriend is into some bad stuff. [i hear this from alot of people not just one source and the people telling me dont even know eachother] my best friend and him are happy together. he makes her really happy and she loves him alot. i dont want to see her get introuble because of this because she doesnt do any of it. idk if i should tell her or not im kinda stressed about what to do.
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I know what you're talking about. Recently I've had a few difficulties with one of my best friends. She has a boyfriend whose really into drugs, and I have a lot of worries that either she will get mixed into the wrong crowd, or that she might start doing drugs too.
They also seem really happy together, and she says they are in love. I asked her if the drugs bother her, and she says that right now, no, but she worries that if they get older and continue dating, it might become a bigger issue.
I always worry that her mom will find out that her bf does drugs and forbid her from seeing him, or worse think that she was the one doing them.
So I talk to her a lot and make sure she seems like shes making responsible choices, and tell her that she can always come to me if she needs help, but I don't know what else we can do.
I think you should tell her you're worried about her, and you care about her so much, that you just want to make sure shes doing okay.
In the end it's her decision what she is going to do, but as long as she knows that actions have consequences(Drugs=HIV, damage to brain cells, whatever) and that you are always there to talk everything should be fine.
Keep your mind open, and if anything ever happens, that she gets too out of hand, then contact a social worker, or talk to your parents. But be careful you don't want to step in, if you don't need to because then she wont trust you.
I hope that everything is okay with your friend, and remember trust is the most important part of any friendship.Love,
Angie91
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thank you so much=]=]
its just a mess and i dont wanna split them up or make things worse by telling her, but i dont want her to get hurt either
i guess ur right i should tell her and see how things go from there
thanks your advice was a biiiig help
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