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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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My dad and I don't have a good relationship. I only see him at family gatherings and we greet each other and say bye when the time comes and that's about it. He helped make my life difficult when I was younger and I don't approve of his actions. He never makes a move to talk or anything and he doesn't even call me on my birthday or anything. I want to make the relationship better though. Even though it's far away, I want him to walk me down the aisle and with the relationship we have now, it isn't going to happen in the future. I am at a loss with this one, so any advice is welcomed :)
mm, what a coincidence.
if there's something i've learned in my life, it's that you can't change people. i've tried to change my dad practically my whole life (since i was six) and i've finally given up. you can't change someone unless they are willing to be changed.
do you believe in God? if you do, there's only one simple thing TO do, which is pray. that's all you can do & God will answer your prayer in his own time.
good luck! =]
(Rating: 5) I do believe in God and thank you so much for helping me out!