Hi. I like reading, writing, giving advice. I love volunteering, but I always save a little bit of time for friends and computer and tv. I have 3 brothers and no sisters.
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So, I don't have a boyfriend, to be honest not any guy friends. I only talk to guys if they break the ice but still then it is only the necessary answer or statement that will get me out of talking because I know if I go on then I will make myself look stupid infront of him (and a lot of times I'm like that with girls too).
Once you get to know me I'm outgoing meaning my friends tell me I'm funny. I can keep a conversation going with a friend but never with anyone other than that. I feel like an outcast because I'm so shy. I don't know how I have friends because I don't talk to anyone very often. Well I can but it's REALLY HARD!
I want to know how to be outgoing to get guy friends and boyfriends but I'm so shy it gets in the way. My resolution was to be more outgoing (it isn't working). I don't know what to say to people so telling me to just talk to them and see what happens WILL NOT WORK!
THANKS SO MUCH>>>>>more answers the better! (link)
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I am the exact same way. With my friends, i can be stupid and whatever, but if i'm around strangers I can't talk very much. Don't worry about getting a boyfriend. I'm 15, and haven't even had a kiss, let alone a boyfriend. Whenever you find "that guy", you will know. And I bet when you do, you will be able to talk, despite your shyness.
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Thanks. I've never kissed anyone either...I'm told by my mom and friends that I'm pretty but my shyness gets in the way so...i don't know...
thanks for the advise
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