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I am 14 female my boyfriend's 15. And we have been together for 7 months on tuesday. I love him so much and he loves me. And if please dont mention how im to young to be in love blah blah blah i dont wanna hear it please. But we have done everything except for have sex. that's the only thing. He bought condoms we know how to do it. We have a safe and comfortable place. I want to do it but im getting scared. We are most likely going to do it next sunday. I am getting cold feet, but i dont wanna tell him that because im afraid he'll never do it. When im with him i want to so badly but when i am alone and can think without intruptions i get frightened. Like for example im worrying about if i get pregnant, we arent even supposed to be doing it anyways. Is it normal for me to be afraid, not just of getting pregnant but just nervous?
It's normal, actually it's a lot better to worry about that sort of stuff than not even care and wind up with STDs and being pregnant because you were carefree.
The night before and the ten minutes before my ex showed up when I was going to have sex for the first time, I was terrified, but he made me feel so comfortable. Unfortunatley he used me for sex. But I wouldn't worry about that, I don't think he'd still be with you seven months, if all he was looking for was sex and you haven't had it yet. It's up to you if you are ready though. Just remind yourself that you don't have to do this if you don't feel comfortable.
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thank you soo muchh :)
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