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my quote-- "The past is the past and there is nothing i can change, The only thing i can do is help you with the future"


I hope my advice helps you. In the future i want to become a Psychiatrist. My answers might not always be 100% correct but i try my best. && i would help anyone i could possibly help before i would even think of helping myself.


My name is Amy and iam 14, But i am very wise for my age. Just because im 14 does not mean i can not give good advise. I am COMPLETLY honest and if i think your acting like an idiot im going to say it whether you want her hear it or not. i dont care what people think about me, i have been though to much to. I dont beleive in lying to friends or people who need help && i ALWAYS speak my mind.


I have suffered through Depression, stress, and i keep all my feeling a secret so know one will find out or know im not stong or brave. I am always willing to help someone who feels the same. I've have/had mental breakdowns, suicidal moments, family problem, friend problem, & boy friend problems. im pretty sure that i am bipolar and ADD or ADHD, but i am afriad to tell me parents because i know they will not believe me. I am also all my friends, both guys and girls- and for ages 9-50, personal Psychiatrist so i know it all. I don't like stupid Drama and i am for the most part used to it, but I that how my life is. I LOVE reading about mental illnesses, i know its kind of odd- but thats me. && i love getting to look up and learn about something NEW!


If you have any thing you would like to talk to me about you can IM me. my Aim is xxTimesxChange or you can e-mail me at bballmonkey1993@yahoo.com
I would love to help.

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I am 14 female my boyfriend's 15. And we have been together for 7 months on tuesday. I love him so much and he loves me. And if please dont mention how im to young to be in love blah blah blah i dont wanna hear it please. But we have done everything except for have sex. that's the only thing. He bought condoms we know how to do it. We have a safe and comfortable place. I want to do it but im getting scared. We are most likely going to do it next sunday. I am getting cold feet, but i dont wanna tell him that because im afraid he'll never do it. When im with him i want to so badly but when i am alone and can think without intruptions i get frightened. Like for example im worrying about if i get pregnant, we arent even supposed to be doing it anyways. Is it normal for me to be afraid, not just of getting pregnant but just nervous?

yes it is normal to be scared and if you dont feel right doing it then you probably shouldn't. If it was right then you would know, maybe you should wait a little while, just listen to what ever you think i right. You would not be scared or frightened if there was honestly nothing bothering you. If you tell you Boyfriend that you are scared and you dont feel you can, he should understand and he should love you no matter what, and if he doesn't he is a jerk and you should not be with him. Not saying that this is your boyfriend but all some guys want is sex, so if he understands then you know he really cares about you. Hope this helped.

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(Rating: 5) yupp it did helpp thanx :)
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