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my quote-- "The past is the past and there is nothing i can change, The only thing i can do is help you with the future" I hope my advice helps you. In the future i want to become a Psychiatrist. My answers might not always be 100% correct but i try my best. && i would help anyone i could possibly help before i would even think of helping myself.
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okay, well my mom and her boyfriend smoke. a lot.
i only visit on saturdays, but it drives me CRAZY because whenever i come home i smell like ciggerettes. and i dispise that smell. i don't like people who smoke that much either, because i have heart issues and i can't really breathe around it.
how can i try and convince my mom and her boyfriend to stop smoking? i already tried, and i told them how bad it is for you and everything, but they didnt' care. i WANT them to care. i hate this.
can someone give me advice on how to avoid this? or something?
well no matter what you try and say at first your mom and her bf wont understand becuase they have been addicted for soo long, that their body tells them that they need that cigartte to survive. First you need to sit your mom down and tell her that you want to have a serious conversation. then you need to first bring up that u have a heath problem and that the smokeing might worsen it and cause more problems. You can try to work out a way that your mother and her bf can smoke outside or in the basement if you have one,that way the smoke will not irretate you, also you can try to tell your mom maybe that she also has problems heath wise and that her lungs may be damaged or may become damaged in the futrue and may get lung cancer. While you are saying that tell her that you will always be by her side and that you love her ,and will be their when times get tough becuase smokeing is very hard to quit becuase it is a drug and you become addicted.
You may not get your wish of your mother stoping but at least you can come up with a solution so she does not smoke around you.
(Rating: 5) thanks.