I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
I dig art, music and books.
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I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.
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So I was with someone and it didn't quite work out. Because I'm in high school and they were in middle school. I just ... didn't think it could work for a number of reasons and I was getting close to this new guy. [friend close] It felt so wrong because I enjoyed talking to him.
So I ended my relationship after a while. He is kind of clingy and into my business.
What should I do about this person without hurting them?
I can't say... "I don't want a relationship right now"
That relates to my next problem.
Also,
the new guy.. I have only been talking to him for maybe 3 weeks. We knew each other in middle school.. like 2 years ago. We talk on Myspace..
He seems to like me? He also wants to hug/kiss me. Apparently if I asked him out, he would say yes.
I'm not sure if I like him. Everyone keeps saying : "Just admit that you like him."
but i don't?
How do I know if I like someone? I don't want to rush into a relationship, yea know? :[
We are.. kinda going on a date this weekend and I don't know how to act. If I were to act like myself.. I would end up cuddling up on him in the movies [because I'm weird like that] and I might give the wrong signs?
I'm just so nervous.
People say he likes me.. I think he does but for what reason? We haven't talked in a long time. A couple of years.
I don't want to get into something that's based off looks. I guess not knowing each other.. gives you something to talk about and do in a relationship
For some reason... I'm scared.
Any advice? :[ (link)
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ok You've just met this guy so you should get to know him better before you get into a relationship. If you need time before you get into another relationship then try not to be so close and cuddly with the guy. Think about if you do love this guy or not. Think if you could live without him. If your on your date and you WANT to cuddle up to him then do it. If you do end up in a relationship just take it slow and if it works out great! and if it doesn't then thats ok. Maybe your scared because you do like this guy but dont want to move on so quickly because you still like your ex? If your ex is being clingy tell him you need some space. Dont worry just have fun and enjoy the date! if your still unsure about him then just take it slow and give it some time. Hope it all works out love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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I don't like my ex. I just don't want to hurt him. thanks!
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