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Hey well as you probably see I am 19 and I'm Christian (JesusFreak) and go ahead ask me something hopefully i can give you an answer thats right and ok with you. Have a good day

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My best guy friend usually helps me through everything, he seems to understand and listen. But recently he hasn't seemed to care about me as much. He used to call a few times a week and ask how I was doing, and if I had a problem we'd talk it through.

It's been 11 days and he hasn't called once. I feel like he really doesn't care about me anymore. Today he helped me with a problem but only because I told him I had one, and I felt like he felt he HAD to help me. I only see him on the bus to school, and I never ask about it. I don't know, I've tried talking to him about the not caring thing and he says, "How am I supposed to know you have a problem if you don't tell me?" I mean yes, that is understandable, but he used to check in with me at least.

I don't know what to do. It's honestly really hurting me, I cry everynight, and have NO ONE to talk to. I feel like I'm losing my best friend, PLEASE help me. Anything is good!

He's 16/m, and I'm 16/f.

It sounds like your bestfriend had a crush on you...and when he realised that he didnt have a chance with you he gave up really trying to be your friend...or he has a girlfriend and the girl doesnt like him talking to other girls...or maybe something is bothering him...maybe you should ask him whats wrong see if he says anything

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(Rating: 5) Yeah, he liked me for awhile, but I don't know if that's stopped yet or not, that's why I'm so confused. Thank you though. (:
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