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Hey well as you probably see I am 19 and I'm Christian (JesusFreak) and go ahead ask me something hopefully i can give you an answer thats right and ok with you. Have a good day

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13/f.

Ok; My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now, and he used to be really nice and sweet. But, now all he talks about is sex. He usually says, "Just kidding, I love you." After all his perverted comments, but I can't tell when he is kidding or not. I really like him, possibly even love. I am just wondering, how can I tell when he is kidding or not?

Also, I have had thoughts about having sex with him alot lately. I feel so bad, but whenever I see or talk to him, I get these visions in my head of us making love. Is this bad? I've always said to myself, I am going to stay a virgin until I get married but he makes me feel as if I want to give that up.

P.s. I'd like a guys view, but girls are more than welcome to answer as well.

hey..at that age all that is on guys minds are sex and he may just say he is kidding but that is what he actually wants more then likely..and yes it is perfectly normal to want to have sex at your age its hormones...but i think it is very important you wait on the decision of having sex...waiting till marriage is an excellent idea

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(Rating: 5) Thankyou, that is what I think too.

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