Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
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just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
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E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
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Age: 15
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my friend was over my house she acts like a stud we switched cell phones for 2 day during them 2 day i got over 15 messages from her girlfriend saying stuff i dont even want to mention should i ask her is she gay or play like i dont know
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[EDIT: Yes, things are going to be a little different and such, but not totally. She's still the same person you know, the same friend. It's going to be a little tough to accept, but overtime I'm sure you'll get used to it. When she does come out and tell you, talk to her about it. Let her know at first that you might not be comfortable with her talking about her girlfriend or anything, but that you support her ; you just need some time to get adjusted. I'm sure she'll understand and she'll be glad you're willing to accept it. ]
I wouldn't just come out and ask her if she's gay, because maybe she's trying to wait and find the time where she's most comfortable & ready to let you know. Also, you never know ; it could all just be a joke with her and her friend. Me and my friend make weird pervy comments to eachother all the time, but we're not gay. Just let her be the one to tell you, but maybe help guide her along.
Whenever you guys go to switch your phones back, or see eachother next, just mention that you got alot of messages from this one girl, _____. You got like 15 of them. If she asks what they said, tell her. See what she says. If she doesn't tell you, she may not be ready to tell you. Or like I said, it could all be one big joke with a friend or something she's having. You just need to wait and see what happens. If she does turn out to be gay, she'll tell you, someday. Whenever she's ready and comfortable and feels like she'll be able to tell you and you'll understand and accept it. At least as of now you're partially aware your friend might be gay, so when the time comes for her to tell you, you'll be ready.
I hope I helped.
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Rating: 5
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i gave you a 5 i liked your advice i already got my phone back and there were some on my phone talking bout let go share our lesbian love or somthn like that but anyway i will take your aadvice but i still dont know how i would act towards her things are going to be different when she fianlly does tell me she is gay-bi-lesibian whatever things are going to be so different its going to be hard
thanx
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