Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
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i have a bigg crush on one of my good friends brothers. she knows, and she swears she doesnt mind, but i think she does. should i go for it with him, or lay off and respect the relationship i have with my friend?
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Well, I would have a serious talk with her about this. The next time you guys are alone, just mention it once more. Be like,"I know you said you don't mind already that I have a big crush on your brother and everything, but I'm thinking about going for it with him, and I just want to really make sure you're fine with this." And see what she says.
If she says she's uncomfortable with it, then respect her decision. I know it'll be hard getting over him, but "chicks before dicks", as people've said. What's more important: some guy that you'll probably later break up with ( seeing as most teenage relationships don't last later in life ) or a friend who could be around forever?
But if she doesn't mind, and I don't think she does, go for it! Just rememebr: to divide time between her and her brother. Don't spend a bunch of time with one, without spending alot with the other cause if you spend alot of your time flirting with him and hanging with him; she's gonna start feeling ignored. So if she invites you over to hang, hang with her. Maybe drop by his room and say hi or something, but hang with her. If he invites you over, hang with him and say hi to her and everything. Or, dependign how close her and her brother are ; you guys could all just hang together!
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I hope I helped!
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