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there is these 2 boys in my class and they stare at me and my friend all the time but they look me in the eye they deny that they like me online.but they wont talk to me in person its like theyre scared too.one of the boys talks to the other one about where they live but the other boy already knows where he lives.they also talk about other girls like trying to get me jealous or something he says " i wanna go out with " so and so but i dont know what hes tyring to do ... do you think he likes me ? or my friend what other signs would a boy do if they liked me ? my friend and i pass notes back and fourth and they try to look do they like me ?also one of them did a nod thing i dont know what it means and i asked him on here why he dosent talk to me in school he said i dont know on here and in art class he pulls up his shirt and his friends are at my table and he talks to them alot and stares at me he looks me in the eye but he has a gf theyve been together since june 05
Greeen mascara: he gets up at lunch time and looks over at my table do you think he likes me ? i dont know what he is trying to do he nods at me ... he told me on here that he nodded to me in school and i turned my head .. if i knew that i wouldnt have also he seems to follow me around school. i dont know whats up with him my bestfriend thinks that he likes me but no1 knows he will only talk to me online not in person it seems like he is scared . if anyone can please help IM me on greeenmascara thanks !!

err.
he has a gf? since 05?
hm, that means they're kind of serious.
maybe he's tired of her though.

yeah, you can look at one of my answers to a question kind of like this. i can relate to you cause of my best friend last year. he had a girlfriend, yet he would always flirt with me. his best friend even told me he liked me. but you know what? i didn't care. you know why? okay, if a guy has a girlfriend and is flirting with someone else, then that's not fair to his girlfriend. just cause she isn't around doesn't mean that they can do whatever they want. what makes me or you any different? he'd just do the same thing to me because i'm not gonna magically change his personality.
sometimes when guys do what the kid your talking about is doing, they're looking for a back-up girl in case their current relationship doesn't work out, so be careful.

it sounds like he likes you, but still. it's not right for a guy to do that to his girlfriend, so if he breaks up with her & asks you out, be careful and make the right decision ..

remember though. if he breaks up with you, you've already made another enemy -- his ex.
now if i were her, i would be pretty pissed off.
you never know what she can do. if they stay friends, she might make up shit to get you two to break up.

good luck & i hope everything works out okay.

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