I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
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This is probably under the wrong category, but who really gives.
Anyways, my 16th birthday is on February 10th, which is a Saturday this year. And I don't know what I wanna do for it. My boyfriend won't be here to celebrate it with me because he's a Marine & he'll be in Iraq. He leaves sometime this month.
Since I can't spend it with him, I'm not really sure what I wanna do for it. Last year [since I am hispanic], I had the choice of a quince or 2000 dollars. I chose the money. All of it is gone since I went on a trip to Puerto Rico, and then took some money down there & shopped. Anyways, I'm also half white, so I can have a sweet 16. I don't really want a huge party thing, but I don't know what I want.
I was thinking of getting a piercing, but I want a few piercings, and I don't think my parents are gonna spend around $45 on each piercings. I want about 3. My tragus, my marilyn & my belly button. So, if I can't get the three piercings, I don't want any of them at all.
Now this is my problem right here: I want a small get together with some friends. Thing is, I don't really have any friends because I don't really trust anyone anymore. Most of the people that I thought were my friends talked a ton of shit about me behind my back, and being the person who doesn't take shit from anyone, told them to go fuck themselves. So what do I do?
I'm not even sure what I want for my birthday. A couple months ago I was super positive of what I wanted, but now I'm just not sure. >:[ Help? (link)
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Well sweet 16's are always supposed to be special so maybe think of something you have always wanted. Maybe go on another trip somewhere. Or you could save up your money for a car if you dont really want to do anything. You could do something exciting like bungee jumping or sky diving or skiing or rock climbing. If you do have some really close friends you could get really dressed up and formal and go out somewhere really nice or have a mini party with a theme like hawaiin or things you would never wear. Or just go shopping. it depends what your into. Maybe going to a concert and spending the night in a hotel and going with a bestie or something. i hope you have an awsome bday and happy bday =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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