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I'm not here to tell you what to think or do, but to give you as much honest, accurate information as possible. If I don't know an answer to a specific question, I'll research it before replying. I won't sugarcoat things; my job is to tell it like it is.

I've got a particular interest in sexual health and sexuality. I know a lot about fertility and pregnancy - and firsthand now, as I've just had twins. I'm also an accredited sexual health worker.

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I like this guy but I have heard that he may be gay is there any way of telling ?
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There is no way to automatically be able to tell if someone is gay or not. And seeing as around 1 in every 10 people is, chances are you know all sorts of gay people who have not told anyone about their sexuality.

Where did you hear he was gay? From sources that you can trust, people you actually think have inside knowledge of the guy you like?

An option you've got is to do what you would do with any guy you liked. Depending on your personality, that might include asking him out, flirting, or trying to be friends first. If he's straight and likes you back, super. If he's straight and doesn't like you in that way, or is gay, at the very least you might end up with a friend.

I wish you the best.


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